In the groundbreaking book 10 to 25, renowned psychologist David Yeager challenges adults to rethink their approach to interacting with young people. Published on August 6, 2024, this essential guide draws upon new scientific research to present innovative methods for motivating individuals aged ten to twenty-five. Yeager's work is not just a book; it's a roadmap for parents, educators, coaches, and mentors seeking to create more uplifting and productive relationships with the youth.
As adults, we often find ourselves frustrated by the perceived disengagement or rebelliousness of the younger generations. Many don’t realize that the brain undergoes significant changes during puberty, driving a craving for social reward and an aversion to social pain, like embarrassment or shame. This can lead to miscommunications and frustration. Yeager helps us understand this dynamic and teaches a new approach.
Yeager introduces the concept of the mentor mindset, a style of leadership and influence that resonates with young people's need for respect and validation. By validating their perspectives, asking thoughtful questions, and being transparent, adults can bridge the gap that often leads to misunderstandings. His research shows that these simple adjustments reduce issues like school dropouts and mental health struggles.
Think mentoring requires significant time investment? Yeager debunks that myth. Engaging with young people through meaningful dialogue not only empowers them but also frees up adults' time. Young individuals are poised for growth; tapping into their neurobiological motivations can lead to remarkable achievements.
With 10 to 25, Yeager offers a clear framework to foster well-adjusted, independent young adults who contribute positively to society. It's more than just a book; it's a vital tool for anyone looking to foster a deeper connection with the youth. Cheering them on and truly understanding their needs can lead to transformative outcomes for both parties.
