This Is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel is a captivating narrative that delves into the heart of family dynamics and the struggles of self-identity. At its core lies Claude, a five-year-old boy with dreams of being a princess. While his supportive parents, Rosie and Penn, cherish his uniqueness, they grapple with the societal implications of their son's aspirations.
With a blend of humor and poignancy, the novel explores the challenges of parenting in a world that often tries to fit children into prescribed molds. What happens when a family decides to keep a secret? When Claude expresses his desire to transition, Rosie and Penn are faced with a dilemma—how can they support their child while also navigating the complexities of societal acceptance? This tale reflects the real-life struggles families face, making it a relatable read for anyone who has ever felt different.
As Claude grows, so does the weight of the family secret. The narrative beautifully captures the essence of transformation, both for Claude and his family, as they confront the world’s expectations and their own fears. Each character's journey is infused with authentic emotion, making their experiences resonate deeply with the reader. Frankel masterfully discusses the theme of change—how it is often bittersweet and difficult, yet ultimately necessary and beautiful.
This book isn’t just a story—it’s an exploration of love, acceptance, and the complexities of life that will inspire thoughtful conversations long after you finish reading. With multiple honors, including being highlighted by Reese Witherspoon’s book club, it has received acclaim from People Magazine and Bustle.
Whether for your bookshelf or as a gift for a loved one, This Is How It Always Is is a remarkable read that emphasizes the power of love, truth, and the beauty of being authentically you.
